Listing your ideal relationship dynamic is essential, after all if you don’t know what you’re looking for how will you know when you’ve found it? HINT: the best relationships have half of their lives spent together and half of their lives apart. Do you want an equal relationship? What does that look like for you? Does it mean you share financial responsibilities? Does it mean you talk through conflict diplomatically and work towards a compromise? Keep your ideal relationship dynamic with your ideal partners qualities or ‘shopping list’ to strengthen your resolve to not settle for anything less.
What is your ideal relationship dynamic? What areas are essential that you keep equal? Are there any areas where you would either want to defer responsibility or take more responsibility for? Is it reasonable on your partner to do so and if they want something other than this are you prepared to compromise? Please share your thoughts in the comments below to gain encouragement, insight and support from our community, we’d love to hear from you.