This sounds silly I know but when I was single I wrote a ‘shopping list’ of all the qualities I wanted in a partner and I do believe that if you take the time to be intentional in terms of what you are looking for in this way you will naturally attract people who fall in line with what you are seeking. My boyfriend today not only has all of the qualities I was looking for but even has fifteen or so further qualities – bonus hey?!? Keep your list somewhere noticeable like on your phone or on a mirror.


What does your shopping list comprise of? Have you done a similar exercise in the past? Please share your thoughts in the comments below to gain encouragement, insight and support from our community, we’d love to hear from you.