improving your work life balance

Finding Your Inner Zen; How to Realize a Work / Life Balance Part Five

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So far this series we’ve covered a lot of ground so just to give you a recap the steps we’ve examined are:

 

The Eight Steps To Find Balance At Work

 

  1. Manage expectations and reduce perfectionism
  2. Break up big tasks and set manageable daily goals
  3. Do important and urgent tasks first and prioritize
  4. Focus on one thing at a time
  5. Delegate where possible
  6. Take breaks and eat lunch
  7. Avoid procrastinating
  8. Don’t define yourself by your job performance or status

 

The Eleven Steps To Find Balance At Home

 

  1. Don’t check emails after your contracted hours
  2. Exercise
  3. Have your five a day
  4. Mindfulness meditation
  5. Schedule in one thing to look forward to each day
  6. Have hobbies and interests outside of work
  7. If you have a stressful work day, prioritize relaxing at home

 

This final week in the series we will take a look at steps eight through to eleven in creating more balance at home, including seeing friends and family, living by your own priorities and taking regular vacations throughout the year.

 

Step Eight: Schedule in friends and family

 

It’s important to keep in regular contact with friends and family if you want your relationships to remain strong and healthy. Ultimately we are social beings so it is vital to maintain and nurture our relationships for our sense of belonging, connection and happiness.

 

If you are really busy you can still text, schedule in a call to catch up, or, better yet, a Skype session or face to face meeting. Try to see friends or family weekly to ensure you reap the psychological benefits of having a close network of social support.

 

If you believe your friendships are not the best they could be, please read ‘Why Building Strong Friendships is Important For Our Health’ to discover the 10 key behaviors which will improve them beyond measure.

 

Equally, should you like to develop closer bonds with family you can read ‘The 10 Key Behaviors That Will Ensure Strong Family Bonds Over the Holidays’ (which is applicable no matter what time of year).

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Finding Your Inner Zen; How to Realize a Work / Life Balance Part Four

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Last week we looked at the first five steps of creating a greater balance in your home life, namely:

 

  1. Don’t check emails after your contracted hours
  2. Exercise
  3. Have your five a day
  4. Mindfulness meditation
  5. Schedule in one thing to look forward to each day

 

This week we take a look at steps six and seven, examining the importance of having outside hobbies and interests and prioritizing relaxation.

 

Step Six: Have hobbies and interests outside of work

 

To develop a stronger identity outside of work it is really important to focus on finding hobbies and activities that are unrelated to work, that you can immerse yourself in and that you are passionate about.

 

Playful activities you can engage in include:

 

Spontaneous

 

  • Singing along to one of your favorite songs
  • Dancing
  • Laughing and joking with friends
  • Listening to music
  • Impromptu shopping
  • Taking a walk

 

Non-Spontaneous

 

  • All sports
  • Board games
  • Creating art
  • Arts and crafts
  • Sewing or knitting
  • Karaoke
  • Bowling
  • Going to the cinema
  • Going to a museum or exhibition
  • Going to a concert
  • Going on holiday

 

Ways you can spend some quality alone time include:

 

  • Scenic walks
  • Having a coffee at a cafe and people watching
  • Reading
  • Going to the movies
  • Going to a beautiful restaurant
  • Meditating
  • Listening to music
  • Visualizing
  • Having a long hot bath

 

Creative hobbies and interests include:

 

  • Pottery
  • Sculpting
  • Photography
  • Gardening
  • Painting (watercolor, oil, acrylic)
  • Drawing (pencil, pen, pastels, charcoal)
  • Writing non-fiction
  • Creative writing
  • Writing poetry
  • Song writing
  • Singing
  • Playing an instrument
  • Composing music
  • Dancing
  • Acting
  • Sewing
  • Knitting
  • Card making
  • Calligraphy
  • Scrapbooking
  • Origami and quilling
  • Jewelry making
  • Mosaics (E.g. mirror frames, tables, pots)
  • Cake decorating, baking or cooking

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Finding Your Inner Zen; How to Realize a Work / Life Balance Part Three

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Last week we finished the last five steps in creating greater balance at work, these being:

4. Focus on one thing at a time

5. Delegate where possible

6. Take breaks and eat lunch

7. Avoid procrastinating

8. Don’t define yourself by your job performance or status

 

This week we begin looking at the eleven steps to finding greater balance at home, including not checking work emails and scheduling in one thing to look forward to each day.

 

The Eleven Steps To Find Balance At Home

 

Step One: Don’t check emails after your contracted hours

 

As I mentioned earlier in this series I have ensured that I have not calibrated my phone to receive work emails. I know all too well that if I had this facility on my phone my personal life would suffer. If you can already access work emails out of hours make absolutely sure you no longer look at them out of hours – there is nothing that cannot wait until the next morning!

 

Step Two: Exercise

 

Exercise has not only been proven to improve the health of our hearts and reduce the likelihood of heart disease but it also helps to prevent osteoporosis – a debilitating disease which depletes bone density  and can lead to frequent bone fractures in later life. It has been shown to reduce obesity, reduce the likelihood of diabetes, increase our libido’s, promoting a sexually healthy lifestyle and even and lengthens our life span. Should you need further convincing exercise also helps reduce insomnia, improving our sleep quality, which in turn makes us more emotionally resilient to life’s ups and downs.

 

But the benefits to exercise are more far reaching than just helping to increase our physical health – exercise has been proven to improve our mental and emotional health too! Exercise improves our reasoning ability and memory function and has been shown to reduce the stress hormone Cortisol – proving that through regular exercise we can lower our stress levels. In addition, the endorphin’s exercise releases gives us a considerable positive emotional boost, providing us with an invaluable sense of well being.

 

Step Three: Have your five a day

 

Good nutrition boosts memory, performance and energy, so ensure you are getting enough vegetables and fruit throughout the day – your performance at work and at home will be better and your skin and body will thank you for it!

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