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Why Calm Excitement Trumps Sweaty Palms Any Day!

The sweaty palmed, racing heart, and adrenaline fueled love of the movies has a lot to answer for. The movie portrayal of an all or nothing romance often means a turbulent and high conflict relationship in real life, which all too many of us try to pursue only to be left with something comparable to a champagne hangover – good at the time but generally not worth it at all.


Research of healthy, successful, long term relationships that have stood the test of time has revealed that these couples shared one thing in common – calm excitement. Sound like an oxymoron? Well it actually makes a lot of sense. Calm excitement refers to feeling a sense of calm around your partner, a sense of being completely at ease whilst also having a quiet inner excitement that stems from wanting to make your partner happy and share your life together. It is this quality that research has shown to be an indicator that the relationship will be successful in the long term.


Do you pursue the type of love depicted in movies? Have you ever been in rollercoaster relationships as a result? What do you think of the idea of calm excitement? Please share your thoughts in the comments below to gain encouragement, insight and support from our community, we’d love to hear from you.


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