Why Men Should Take The Lead With The First Move And Commitment
Let me be straight, I’m all for equality and the feminist movement but when it comes to dating call me old fashioned but I think men should take the lead. This isn’t because I’m afraid to approach men, nor is it that I think it’s unladylike to do so, I simply think that for dating to work the man needs to pursue the woman and feel like he’s got a bit of a catch.
Moreover, if the woman pursues the man they will never know whether the man is genuinely interested or just looking for an easy date. When the man makes the first move with dating and commitment both partners know it is because there is a shared deep connection and a genuine desire to take the relationship to the next level. So next time, if someone tells you to go ahead and give that guy your number, maybe think twice before you do.
Like anything, there are exceptions (Online Dating being one of them); the main thing is to be honest with the level of interest the man has shown you and if it’s not much to move on.
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